What do I offer

Monthly Group Zoom or in-person Meetings

I invite you to be vulnerable, to expose your shortcomings and conditionings, believed limitations and fears, and joyfully burn them in the fire of an intimate and heart-warming Brotherhood. The collective intelligence of the circle will ignite the best of what you have to give to the world and help you claim back your natural confidence and autonomy. I want to share with you the potential of men coming together beyond our competitiveness, insecurities and inertia and rise together in a newly found intimacy. It's about being real, it's about being raw, it's about being joyful. I'm here to navigate you through the seeming snares and pitfalls with a particular emphasis on postmodern Sensitive New Age Guys conditionings.

Personal Coaching

Let's face it brother, letting go of deeply engrained patterns take time. Join me for in-depth intimate Sessions which - if you bring your focus, dedication and integrity - will potentially accelerate your process to reclaim your natural strength.

Open Telegram Group

Engage with a community of fellow brothers who are willing to grow beyond their "nice guy" conditionings.

Join me if

• You are sick and tired of being too nice and of suffering its consequences
• You are craving to be vulnerable with other men
• You are ready to let go of your victimisation
• Your are ready to say no and set healthy boundaries
• Your are ready to face your anger and the pain that lies underneath
• You are ready to understand and transcend your childish and adolescent behaviours
• You are longing to embody your true essence as a MAN !

Bio

Originally from Brussels, Belgium, I currently reside in Central Portugal at Quinta da Mizarela - the Awakened Life Project Ashram - where together with my teacher and fellow residents I strive to create a new culture based on trust in the recognition of Prior Freedom and Unity.

My insatiable curiosity led me to studying philosophy and electronic music production. I travelled a lot, I sat in a long meditation retreats, I experimented with psychedelics. I read about pretty much everything I could find. I worked as a model, as a fundraiser, as barman, as a restaurant manager.
Despite many attempts, I couldn't fit in. I was desperate.
I was thirsty and intuited that there was more to life than the the consensus reality had to offer yet I was disoriented and felt short on perseverance.

The lack of strong male models in my life contributed to my difficulty in getting in touch with a sense of purpose. I felt maladapted, disembodied and fundamentally unhappy while developing the perfidious strategies of being nice with everyone to seek love and acceptance in a desperate gesture. In the process I denied my natural integrity, strength and sense of true purpose and developed an over sensitivity that denied my true nature as a man.

In 2017 I became part of the Men's Collective. In learning how to be vulnerable with other men whose primary passion is Freedom here and now, my heart blew open and my ideas about Spirituality were shattered. I realised that the frenetic piling up of experiences I was into was a way of seeking relief from the complexities of life and that embracing the pain and complexity of it is in fact where true Spiritual maturity lies.

I realised that most of my struggles such as being nice, been cut-off from the Life force, lacking direction and purpose, were not personal but the fate of most postmodern Sensitive Nice Guys. Being part of the Collective has enabled me to embrace the process of "descent" to land in my body and thus to embrace my masculine essence.

Today as a senior resident at the Ashram of the Awakened Life Project I happily give myself to this ever learning process made of struggles and breakthroughs. I nurture a growing passion to work with men to help them break though their limiting conditionings and believes such as not being good enough or not being loveable. Thus I assist men in embracing and embodying their natural self-confidence, integrity and one-pointedness.